Should I be worried my boyfriend of two years is emailing someone he used to date before we got together?
Posted Sunday, October 10, 2010 by admin
They dated a few months and they stop seeing each other because she didn’t like the way he was acting. My boyfriend and I were talking during the time they were dating. She was his myspace friend and then removed herself from his space. He sent me an email today and had her listed as one of the recipients after my name. He didn’t mention to me that he was emailing her.
Maybe. Ask him why he is doing this.
I’d ask him about it if I were you, and gauge his reaction. Don’t be angry when you bring it up. Just be like “Remember that e-mail you sent me the other day? I noticed that you sent it to your ex, and I thought that she didn’t want to talk to you anymore. What’s up with that?” Just be curious – NOT jealous and not angry.
If he gets mad at you for asking, gets nervous and babbles some stupid answer or changes the subject, then you can be about 98% sure that he’s trying to talk to her again and that he wants her back.
If he remains calm and doesn’t freak on you and actually has a logical explanation – perhaps he clicked her name by accident? – then hear him out and go from there.
But definetely ask him about it. Never trust the exes!